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+44(0)7739 260 600

We are passionate about intimacy and all our workshops are geared towards supporting you in different ways to find the deepest place of intimacy within yourself and with others that you can.

Upcoming Workshops:

I am currently teaching most of our workshops with my partner, beloved and co-therapist, Louise Mazanti, PhD.  We are currently running workshops in 2017/2018 in the following locations:
Esalen Insitute, CA

Our flagship workshop is called The Invitation.  Louise and I teach from a place of deep Love that fills the space.  This is a beautiful, deep personal journey into the heart of your relationship with intimacy.

The Invitation: How to manifest the fullness of your potential for intimacy

December 4th - 8th 2017, The Skylight Centre, London
April 26th - 30th 2018, The Skylight Centre, London
July 21st - 25th 2018, The Skylight Centre, London

Nov 8th - 12th, Oever 21, 2000 Antwerp, Belgium (NEW DATES COMING SOON!)

A deep personal journey, using the Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy model. This workshop is a deep personal journey into your sexual self.

What is The Invitation?
The Invitation is a five-day non-residential workshop that introduces the vision, models and methods of Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy. The focus of is on personal development, offering you tools for understanding and addressing your own intimacy issues.

What is Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy?
Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy is a revolutionary, new body-oriented therapeutic modality dealing with sex and intimacy issues. Developed by Mike Lousada, Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy is a unique combination of neuroscience, psychotherapeutic and bodywork disciplines, it offers an integrated approach for addressing mind and body so that full resolution can be achieved.

Who is it for?
Anyone looking to mindfully explore their own relationship with sexuality, whether they are currently in a relationship or not. The Invitation is also a pre-requisite for the year long Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy practitioner training, which is approved by Association of Somatic & Integrative Sexology

What will I get from it?
• Insight into how you stop yourself from allowing intimacy
• Ability to step into your authority within yourself and in relationships
• Greater awareness of your shadows around sex
• Increased connection between mind and body
• New tools for dealing with challenging relational issues
• Increased awareness of your body and its wisdom
• Empowerment through choice
• An introduction to the Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy model

What can I expect?
This experiential workshop offers an opportunity for you to get to a deeper understanding of your sexuality, its drives, motivations – and blocks. You will be offered a clear road map that will help you understand your intimate life and how to improve it as well as developing a deeper understanding of your sexual self.

Focusing on your own journey we will use techniques from the Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy model, including guided visualisation, somatic (body) mindfulness and sensate tracking to help connect mind and body.

Teaching Faculty
Mike Lousada, Louise Mazanti

December 4th - 8th 2017, The Skylight Centre, London
April 26th - 30th 2018, The Skylight Centre, London
July 21st - 25th 2018, The Skylight Centre, London

Nov 8th - 12th, Oever 21, 2000 Antwerp, Belgium (NEW DATES COMING SOON!)

London Venue
The Skylight Centre
49 Corsica Street
London N5 1JT

£595, payable in advance. You can secure your place by making a non-refundable and non-transferable deposit payment of £150 or pay the amount in full. Full payment is due one month before the start of the workshop.

How do I sign up?
Please email
Event page 

Further Questions?
Please email or call Mike Lousada on 07739 260 600 for further details.

Personal Development Workshops
Read what the Sunday Telegraph's Stella magazine has to say about our workshops.

Women's Pleasure: Women's Power

Here Mike is taking a back-seat while Louise has paired up with amazing Joelle Chartouni for a women’s only 2 days workshop

Open to the joy of being a woman. Connect to your feminine essence, and experience how being authentically you, as a living, breathing, feeling woman, is a portal to your pleasure and your power.

When we feel challenged by life we often make ourselves small, try to please others, get competitive, go into our heads and deny our femininity. When we feel good inside no matter what emotional state we’re in, we expand and radiate our natural power. Neediness and power games recede as our real, feminine essence begins to shine forth.

Join us for 2 days of coming back to your woman’s body to find your pleasure, your pain and your power.

The relationship between men and women keeps inflicting pain, both at a personal and at a global level. The recent #metoo campaign on Facebook raised awareness about how disempowered women still feel. Men have started rising to the challenge, creating conscious men’s work groups. Now it’s our turn to meet them.

It’s time to learn to connect to the joy and essence of being a woman in a woman’s body, and bring that to the world in a powerful way!

This very special New Years workshop is designed to help you create new neural pathways to experience yourself in a new way. With sisterhood as our guiding principle and using tools from neuroscience, craniosacral therapy and Psychosexual Somatics®, we will gently guide you into deeper connection with yourself, with your body, your pleasure and ultimately with your identity as a woman that is empowered by all that she’s feeling.

〰 Reignite your pleasure is all you need to do 〰

The Skylight Centre, 49 Corsica Street, Highbury East, London N5 1JKT
January 9th-10th 10.00am-5.00pm
Price: £160. 50% non-refundable to book your place, full amount to be paid least a week in advance.

For any questions or sign up please email:

Light refreshments are included.
There’s no nudity in this workshop.

Louise Mazanti, Phd, Pg. Dip in Psychosynthesis counselling has a private practice as a sex and intimacy therapist. With Mike Lousada she teaches Psychosexual Somatics® Therapy in Europe and the US, is the co-author of Real Sex, Why everything you leaned about sex is wrong, and has appeared as an intimacy expert on Channel 5.

Joelle Chartouni, B.C.S.T, is a biodynamic craniosacral therapist and biomagnetism practitioner. She is a tutor on the CTET craniosacral therapy training in the UK. She dedicates a big part of her work to educate and help women find their health and connect to their true selves, to live a fulfilled, happier and freer life.

Real Sex: Awaken your erotic intelligence

We have a deep yearning for love and aliveness in our body, yet our culture has hijacked sexuality with commercialism, pornography and performance pressure. So, how do we recapture the purity of our sexual self? How can we transform sex from something we do to a state of being? How can we have Real Sex?

On this deep, therapeutic journey you will be guided into the heart of your sexual self, a way of creating meaningful and fulfilling intimacy. You will discover the seven keys to awaken your erotic intelligence and teach you to love and accept your mind, body, feelings, desires and sexuality at a deeper level, leaving behind feelings of guilt, insecurity and shame.

Based on our book Real Sex: Why everything you learnt about sex is wrong (Hay House 2017) you will reconnect with the true meaning of sex and intimacy at a deep level. Through exercises and shared wisdom you will reawaken to your potential for love, joy and pleasure. You will begin to understand the power of embodied presence, of clean, not just clear, communication and a subtle sensitivity that will connect you with the potential of sex.

Please note this is a therapeutic workshop, aimed at personal development. There is no nudity or sexual activity in this workshop.

Esalen, California: 8 - 13 October 2017 (Next Esalen dates will be Fall 2018)

TALK: Love and Freedom: Antwerp, Belgium: November 6th, 7 - 9.30pm (NEW DATES COMING SHORTLY!)

PST Practitioner Training

We are currently in the 4th cohort, ending July 2017.  Further dates will be announced for 2018, starting September 2018 -