Bringing a body-mind approach to sex therapy

“For the first time in years, I feel able to re-enter
the world of physical relationships”
Alice, 50


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  • Do you hold back from being in relationship?
  • Do you feel uncomfortable with your sexuality or your femininity?
  • Are you yearning for the relationship that you deserve?
  • Do you have many male friends, but somehow can’t find a partner?
  • Do you feel there’s more to sex but aren’t sure what it is?
  • Do you feel unable to enjoy sex?
  • Do you have difficulty experiencing orgasm?
  • Do you want to reclaim the innocence of your sexuality?
  • Are you struggling with performance in bed?
  • Are you lost in fantasies or porn?
  • Have you lost connection with what it means to be a man in a post-#metoo society?
  • Are you longing to feel the fullness of your potency?
  • Are you stuck in a rut in sex, intimacy or even in your professional life?
  • Are you interested in learning about sexual kung fu?
  • Do you want to experience greater pleasure?
According to the Sexual Advice Association around 50% of women and almost as many men suffer from some type of sexual problem. Some surveys put this as high as 70% of women at some point in their lives. Issues for men are also increasing. So, if you have sexual or intimacy issues, you’re not alone.

If you are experiencing sex and relationship issues (see my Sex & Intimacy Issues Page), my powerful and unique combination of talk therapy and hands-on bodywork (What is Psychosexual Somatics®) will empower you to resolve your problems quickly and effectively.

This work can also help to :
  • Increase libido
  • Re-empower your feminine
  • Release tensions, emotion and trauma which is held in the body
  • Open to love, intimacy and relationship
In our regular newsletter, my wife and  co-therapist, Louise Mazanti , PhD., describe ways in which you can overcome sexual and intimacy issues and become more fully alive.

Our newsletter also contains Special Offers, information on exciting workshops by other teachers and much more. I look forward to sharing with you.


Delighted to have been invited to speak on the Voices of Esalen podcast. Listen here

Our flagship workshop:
The Invitation:
a deep personal journey exploring Love, Conscousness and Sexuality
"A life changing experience" (former participant)
Connection, Consciousness & Creation

Explore the connection between relationship and reality; Learn how to create a life aligned with your deepest Truth

London: Feb 22nd-24th

 *** NEW Workshop ***
The Invitation II - Learning to Love
London: May 3rd-5th

US: Esalen Institute:
*** New Workshop ***
Biohack your Relationship

11th-16th November 2018
Dates for 2019 to follow soon

Find out more about our workshops here
*** NEWS ***
Delighted to announce our book is soon to be published in Spanish & Portuguese

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real sex
talk radio europe
the independent
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Psychologies Magazine:
Libido article

The Sun: Sexual Healing article
Men Can't Hold Their Sexual Energy
Why Men Can't Hold Their Sexual Energy
bbc radio
sunday telegraph
Read my thoughts on sex in long term relationship: The Times

Times Saturday magazine, Love & Sex: The End of Monogamy

Marie Claire: Sexual Anxiety

Psychologies mag: 
Psychologies, Erotic Intelligence

Women's Health:
Is This the Future of Your Sex Life?

Read what Naomi Wolf has to say about my work in her latest book, Vagina: A New Biography